[Shotokan_Karate]

Salam Felicity,

Originally Posted by Felicity

So the answer is that you too, SK, do not believe polygamy is right or acceptable?

If that was your conclusion then no. I agreed with your previous post in which you expressed dislike at most.

My position:

• I am not interested in polygamy because it is not for me like it is not for many people, but...
• It could be a solution for other people, and so it is permissible but only under certain circumstances and rigorous conditions.

Originally Posted by Felicity

If that is all a woman is frightened of having to sacrifice, if that is all a woman cared about, then perhaps she would wholly deserve having to share her husband. But sorry to generalise, I would feel in most cases, this is not what she is scared of or cares about. Also, the first wife will have doubtlessly already shared all her belongings with her husband, she may not have to, but if you love someone, you share everything with them. And then would your arguement just be that Islam says the women doesnt have to, so its her own fault? So does it mean that no woman should ever fully give heself and everything she has to her husband for fear he eventually may get a second wife? If in times of hardship, should she keep her money to herself?

Good question. I don't know so I have to look into that. However, my understanding is that sharing does not always mean giving. In a loving relationship of course she would share. But in the case of a fallout/divorce he would owe her that share, unless she forsakes it. It depends on the level of love and trust she has for him. It's her life, she has to make these judgments. Yes it's tough but no-one knows the future.

Originally Posted by Felicity

but I doubt most Mulisms bother to study the Bible.

I do. The question is: do most Christians bother to study the Bible?

Originally Posted by Felicity

I'm afraid I'm not to into reading any other Islamic texts other than the Quran, but I doubt most Mulisms bother to study the Bible, so I don't feel too bad that I'm only sticking to the one book. If Muhammad was the last prophet, and the Quran is from God, then why look at books which were written by ordinary men? Meaning, at least the bible was written by many prophets and kings etc, people chosen by God, not to offend anyone, but surely advice from books after the Quran are only as useful as any modern theologian? Feel free to put me in my place at this point.

You are right. Hopefully you won't need any other text. I only suggested Tafseer in case the language was not clear for you or for extra info maybe.

W'Allahu A3lam