thankyou for that very nice for you to say , should i take my photo off profile ? yeah i will see if he does let me see his family ,he talks about them i asked what they think about him coming to stay with me and he says they think it best for him !!!! i know its hard to give advice from the short texts i have wrote but im grateful and confused ,i have a friend in uk thats says he only look for passport to england and another says go for it !! ,,,,only i can decided i know that just need all the advice i can get and grateful for yours thankyou